Why do we try so hard to be perfect? For whom are we trying to be perfect? Our friends? Our family members? Strangers? It occurred to me this morning that no one really wants you to be perfect. In fact, it's often someone else's apparent perfection that makes us feel imperfect. But when we have the chance to see others in their natural state, it's comforting. Brene Brown, in her book, Daring Greatly, describes perfectionism as "a defensive move. It's the belief that if we can do things perfectly and look perfect, we can minimize or avoid the pain of blame, judgement, and shame." And truthfully, the one who is bestowing the most judgment upon us is ourself. As a friend of mine said when I showed up to her 5:15 a.m boot camp class one morning with food stuck in my teeth and dried drool on my check (I mean, really?), she hugged me and said "this makes me feel so human." And that's exactly what we all are, human. We're not perfect nor should we try to be. We should simply do our best, act with good intention, and be our best self - whatever that may be.
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